Life is not fair.
This child gets more presents than you do. Gifts are her love language. She needs those presents.
This child gets more dates than you do. Quality time is his love language. Plus he is quiet when you all are talking. He needs time to talk too.
This child gets more activities than you do. She's an extrovert. She thrives on challenge. She needs to be busy.
This child gets away with more than you do. He's not quite old enough to keep up. He needs more grace.
None of those children are loved more than you are. I know it looks unfair. But it's not. Because I shower you with love from the very depths of my soul.